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Your Leadership May Impact Mental Health More Than a Spouse—Are You Ready for That Responsibility?

Writer: Eddy Paul ThomasEddy Paul Thomas

Leadership isn’t just about strategy, efficiency, or the bottom line. It’s about people...their well-being, their capacity to thrive, and their ability to bring their best selves to work and life. Yet, many leaders remain unaware of the profound influence they have on their employees' mental health. The latest research forces us to reconsider the weight of that responsibility.


A 2023 study by The Workforce Institute at UKG found that managers influence their employees' mental health (69%) as much as their spouses (69%)—and even more than doctors (51%) or therapists (41%). This means that leadership isn't just about managing performance; it’s about shaping emotional resilience, psychological safety, and overall well-being.


If that statistic alone isn’t sobering enough, consider this: A 2023 survey by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) reported that one-third of U.S. employees said their job negatively impacted their mental health over the past six months. The primary culprits? Overwhelming workloads, lack of support, and poor management.


For years, conversations around workplace mental health have focused on burnout prevention, reducing turnover, and increasing engagement. While those are important, they fail to address the deeper issue: the ethical responsibility of leadership. If your role as a leader has the same emotional weight as a life partner, how you lead is a moral issue, not just a business strategy.


Employees don’t just bring their skills to work; they bring their whole selves. And when they are subjected to toxic leadership, inconsistent communication, or unrealistic expectations, it doesn’t just affect productivity—it affects their mental and emotional well-being in ways that ripple far beyond the workplace.


When an employee leaves work feeling undervalued, unheard, or chronically stressed, that stress follows them home. It seeps into their relationships, impacts their health, and, in extreme cases, contributes to long-term psychological distress. Leaders who dismiss this reality in favor of “performance-driven” cultures fail to see the bigger picture: people are not just workers; they are humans navigating complex lives.


Leadership is more than authority—it’s stewardship. Conscious leadership challenges us to move beyond transactional management and into transformational impact. It asks leaders to take radical responsibility for their influence, to cultivate environments where people feel psychologically safe, and to recognize that how we treat people at work doesn’t just stay at work.


A conscious leader understands:

  • Workplace culture is a mental health ecosystem. The way policies are enforced, the way feedback is given, and the way stress is managed all shape the mental and emotional well-being of employees.

  • Leadership is emotional labor. You cannot separate how you lead from how people feel. If your leadership style creates fear, anxiety, or chronic stress, that’s a failure, not a strategy.

  • Success isn’t just about results—it’s about people. A team that feels psychologically safe will always outperform a team that is simply afraid to fail.


The research is clear: as a leader, you hold more influence over your employees' mental health than you might realize. The question is—what are you doing with that influence?

Are you leading with awareness, empathy, and accountability? Or are you unknowingly contributing to the silent epidemic of workplace-induced stress and mental health struggles?


If leadership holds the same weight as a spouse in shaping mental well-being, then leadership is not just a privilege—it is a responsibility that extends far beyond the workplace.


The challenge is not just to lead but to lead consciously. Because the impact of your leadership doesn’t end when the workday does—it lingers in the minds, bodies, and lives of those you influence. Choose wisely.


Reflection Question: What is one way you can begin integrating conscious leadership into your daily leadership practice?


Actionable Step: Take 10 minutes today to reflect on how your leadership style impacts your team’s mental health. Where can you improve? What feedback do you need to seek? Consider making conscious leadership a part of your ongoing development—not just for the sake of your organization, but for the people who trust you to lead.


Sources:

  1. The Workforce Institute at UKG. (2023, January 24). Managers impact our mental health more than doctors, therapists — and same as spouses. Business Wire. https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20230124005390/en/Managers-Impact-Our-Mental-Health-More-Than-Doctors-Therapists-%E2%80%94-and-Same-as-Spouses

  2. Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM). (2023). Work negatively impacting employees’ mental health, SHRM research finds. SHRM. https://www.shrm.org/topics-tools/news/benefits-compensation/shrm-research-work-negatively-impacting-employees-mental-health

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