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OK...On Second Thought is an insightful blog dedicated to exploring how Conscious Leadership and Empathy drive stronger teamwork, improve mental health, and elevate interpersonal communication in both personal and professional spheres. Discover strategies to enhance your leadership style and positively impact your family, community, and workplace dynamics.

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Reclaiming Worth in a Culture That Says You’re Not Enough
In the United States, many people live under the weight of constant cultural messages that whisper, and often shout, that they are not enough. These messages may come in the form of advertisements, social media comparisons, institutional standards, or systemic biases. Whether it's the judgment of the neighborhood you live in, the school you attended, the color of your skin, the size of your body, or the clothes you wear, these signals reinforce a deep and pervasive sense of i

Eddy Paul Thomas
6 days ago4 min read


Overcoming Shame with Self‑Empathy
Shame is a powerful and universal emotion... one that can strike quickly and linger for years. It tells us not that we’ve made a mistake, but that we are the mistake. Where guilt says, “I did something wrong,” shame whispers, “I am wrong.”

Eddy Paul Thomas
Aug 133 min read


Silence or Presence? Wrestling with the Ethics of Social Media Engagement
Over the past several months, I’ve been quietly sitting with a tension that many values-centered leaders feel today. It is the tension of presence versus protest… of being a voice for light in darkened spaces, or stepping away in the name of integrity.

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jun 33 min read


Fear Is at Work. So Is Hope. Which One Are You Leading From?
In her book Dare to Lead, Brené Brown writes, “Leaders must either invest a reasonable amount of time attending to fears and feelings...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Mar 253 min read


It's Time to Remember Your Why
Your "why" is deeply personal yet profoundly universal. It’s that inner fire that propels you to rise in the morning, even when life...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Nov 20, 20243 min read


Why Self-Empathy is the Missing Link in Effective Leadership: Insights from Dani Sumner
Dani emphasized that self-empathy is not just a feel-good concept but a critical aspect of effective leadership and personal well-being.

Eddy Paul Thomas
Aug 16, 20243 min read


Listening Beyond Words: Mastering the Practice of Deep Listening
One of the most significant barriers to deep listening is distractions. "We live in a world full of disruptions...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jul 30, 20245 min read


Trauma and Grief in the C-Suite: Navigating Challenges with Tayuanee Dewberry and Sabrina Gilchrist
Executives often bear immense pressure to maintain a façade of strength and competence, even when grappling with personal trauma or grief.

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jun 25, 20244 min read


Addressing Burnout and Compassion Fatigue Among Leaders (The Unbroken Place Podcast Recap)
In the latest episode of the, Eddy delves into a critical conversation with Dr. Stephanie Romero, focusing on the pervasive issues of...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Mar 19, 20242 min read


Preserving Mental Health Amidst Racism: Empowerment Amidst Prejudice
Recently, I had the honor of being a guest on the Dig New Streams Podcast with Dave Capozzi , where I discussed some of the powerful...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Nov 20, 20233 min read
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