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OK...On Second Thought is an insightful blog dedicated to exploring how Conscious Leadership and Empathy drive stronger teamwork, improve mental health, and elevate interpersonal communication in both personal and professional spheres. Discover strategies to enhance your leadership style and positively impact your family, community, and workplace dynamics.

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Reclaiming Worth in a Culture That Says You’re Not Enough
In the United States, many people live under the weight of constant cultural messages that whisper, and often shout, that they are not enough. These messages may come in the form of advertisements, social media comparisons, institutional standards, or systemic biases. Whether it's the judgment of the neighborhood you live in, the school you attended, the color of your skin, the size of your body, or the clothes you wear, these signals reinforce a deep and pervasive sense of i

Eddy Paul Thomas
Aug 194 min read


Overcoming Shame with Self‑Empathy
Shame is a powerful and universal emotion... one that can strike quickly and linger for years. It tells us not that we’ve made a mistake, but that we are the mistake. Where guilt says, “I did something wrong,” shame whispers, “I am wrong.”

Eddy Paul Thomas
Aug 133 min read


Remembering Where You Started
In the rush of deadlines, strategic pivots, and high-stakes decision-making, it's easy for business leaders to forget one essential truth: you weren’t always at the top.
Think back to your first adult job. The uncertainty. The impostor syndrome.

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jun 113 min read


Silence or Presence? Wrestling with the Ethics of Social Media Engagement
Over the past several months, I’ve been quietly sitting with a tension that many values-centered leaders feel today. It is the tension of presence versus protest… of being a voice for light in darkened spaces, or stepping away in the name of integrity.

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jun 33 min read


The Future Belongs to Human-Centered Companies
The Wall Street Journal recently published an article titled "Everybody's Replaceable: The New Ways Bosses Talk About Workers," which chronicles a growing trend in corporate culture where some executives are discarding the language of empowerment and empathy in favor of blunt transactionalism. One stark example is from Josh Drean, CEO of AI startup Growth Assistant, who emailed his staff with the message: "You are all replaceable," a line that exemplifies the article's centra

Eddy Paul Thomas
May 203 min read


Fear Is at Work. So Is Hope. Which One Are You Leading From?
In her book Dare to Lead, Brené Brown writes, “Leaders must either invest a reasonable amount of time attending to fears and feelings...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Mar 253 min read


Empathy and Justice in AI
In a recent episode of the podcast The Unbroken Place with Eddy Paul Thomas, Christian Ortiz, the developer of Justice AI, shared his ...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Oct 24, 20244 min read


The Raise Fade: Why Pay Increases Aren’t Enough to Keep Today’s Talent
In today’s competitive and often unpredictable job market, organizations constantly seek ways to retain talent. While salary increases...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Sep 16, 20244 min read


Why Self-Empathy is the Missing Link in Effective Leadership: Insights from Dani Sumner
Dani emphasized that self-empathy is not just a feel-good concept but a critical aspect of effective leadership and personal well-being.

Eddy Paul Thomas
Aug 16, 20243 min read


Listening Beyond Words: Mastering the Practice of Deep Listening
One of the most significant barriers to deep listening is distractions. "We live in a world full of disruptions...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jul 30, 20245 min read


Well-being at the Top: Prioritizing Mental Health in Leadership
The pressures of leadership, the constant demand for innovation, and the relentless pursuit of success create breeding grounds for stress...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jun 11, 20243 min read


Empowering Others: The Revolutionary Impact of Servant Leadership
In the evolving landscape of corporate structures, a new breed of leaders is emerging. These leaders do not assert their authority with...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jun 3, 20243 min read


Lead with Realness: The Undeniable Impact of Authentic Leadership
Authenticity in the workplace refers to the practice of being genuine and true to one’s self in a professional setting.

Eddy Paul Thomas
May 6, 20243 min read


The Emotionally Intelligent Leader: Transforming Organizations Through Conscious Leadership
In the world of organizational leadership, the integration of emotional intelligence (EI) within the framework of conscious leadership has e

Eddy Paul Thomas
Apr 15, 20243 min read


Cultivating Empathy in the Eye of the Storm: Strategies for Supportive Workplaces
Maintaining empathy in stressful workplace situations is crucial for fostering a positive and supportive environment, especially in...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Mar 12, 20243 min read


The Unseen Path to Connection: A Journey to Empathy
In a world increasingly driven by digital interactions, the essence of human connection begins to fade, replaced by a landscape dominated...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Feb 20, 20243 min read


Beyond the Bottom Line: Embracing Empathetic Leadership for Sustainable Growth in 2024
In 2024, the global business landscape is rapidly evolving, influenced by a multitude of factors ranging from technological advancements...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jan 22, 20242 min read


The DEIB Inflection Point: Insights into Executive Turnovers and Business Imperatives
In 2023, the journey of Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging (DEIB) highlighted both significant progress and ongoing challenges.

Eddy Paul Thomas
Jan 3, 20243 min read


The Cost of Homogeneity: Why Diversity Matters for the Bottom Line
Incorporating diverse voices into an organization's decision-making processes is not just a matter of social responsibility or ethical...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Dec 4, 20232 min read


Preserving Mental Health Amidst Racism: Empowerment Amidst Prejudice
Recently, I had the honor of being a guest on the Dig New Streams Podcast with Dave Capozzi , where I discussed some of the powerful...

Eddy Paul Thomas
Nov 20, 20233 min read
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